Reducing your electric demand would be a first step. Those big screen TVs, heated dryers, and self cleaning ovens are convenient, but not practical. Do you really need the fingernail polish
dryer?
Moving systems away from electric is also a safe bet.
Electric heat is so convenient that I would hate to give it up, but it eats something like 10000 watts of power.
Utilizing an array of energy technology seems to make a great deal of sense to people far and wide. Solar space heating, solar
hot water, and even solar cooking can offer energy without buying or gathering a fuel. In our deep south location, solar thermal systems are competitive in price, and a bargain if you construct the systems with off the shelf parts. The use of scrap, recycled, and repurposed material can give you a useful energy source for the investment of time.
Wood and biomass also makes a fine energy source or backup for those rainy days. A woodstove can heat a space, heat
water, and do your cooking. These forums have copious amounts of information of rocket stoves and rocket mass heaters, and people with
experience in construction and use. They won't steer you wrong.
Gas is a possibility. A 20 pound tank of propane can give you convenient cooking for several weeks, and be refilled for around $20. That one is hard to beat. Just the wire from a breaker panel tp an electric stove is going to run you several times that. Sure is handy to have independent redundant system. Larger gas tanks can be set up to operate water heaters, space heaters, refrigeration, even clothes dryers.
If this is all you put together, a photovoltaic system would be much smaller and less expensive. That $3-4k would go a long way in meeting the needs that remain: well pump, lighting, refrigeration, alarm clock and home electronics.
One particular advantage to solar electric is that you can add on later. Get a couple more panels, a couple more batteries, upgrade the charge controller or inverter when the time comes, maybe
sell your old one on this forum. Its possible to add a wind turbine to the electric system if you have dependable wind in your area. As far as your best options, that decision is up to you and your situation.