Scottish Island Lass looking for a calm, kind man to homestead with.

Hello all,
Im a 37yr old, Scottish lass based, and from, a beautiful island in Scotland, hoping to find a fellow soul daft enough to choose the selfbuild, permaculture path i have chosen and to accentuate the happiness and beauty i have found and nurtured in my life.
I am a country girl and have a love of wild spaces, salt and sea in my heart.
I am an ex-navigation officer from the merchant navy, sailed and travelled around the world and loved seeing the world and it's people.  I now work in cultural protection and logistics (conservation in the montains) and have set up a small sustainable hutting project and farming CIC to help others access the countryside and be educated and employed to both protect and rewild it.
I have also been a chocolatier (as a musketeer but better, making chocolate is a dangerous but wonderful talent) and a gig / music photographer (rock) which was some of the most amazing things I could have done back when I studied!

I love my family and animals dearly, (be warned between the clan that we have a good selection of pets!) So being comfortable with pet hair, wet dog / cats and mud is a must. Sorry in advance!

I like a simple life, i cant stress that enough! I dont like drama or hot heads or quarrelsome folk, and spend a lot of my time quietly enjoying the peace and tranquillity of my surroundings, and laughing at the antics of pets or friends!

I am in the process of designing and building a house on the edge of a remote village plot (sustainable design is something I am passionate about), it would be wonderful to find a good man to share it with and children to be had or welcomed to enjoy the summer days and frequent winter nights with.

I am very earthy and once i know and respect someone they have my all, heart body and soul, and i am looking for that back. I am very tactile when i love and hope to find someone sharing the quality in a commited / loyal and mutually respectful way.

But to summarize, I am a laid back but hard working and determined lady who is loyal, caring and generous.  I have a nature based (our traditional, island) belief system which i would ask anyone to accept as i would their choices.
If any of this resonates please get in touch xx

Hallo, caimar a ha sibh?  Did I spell that right?  My Gaelic is rusty... I just picked up a bit from a Cape Breton fiddle player and the annual Highland Games that happen literally in my backyard (Grandfather Mountain, NC).  I'm clan Cian BTW.  Carroll = Cairbhail = Cian.  I'm rather settled in here... but this is a tumultuous time and I'm as comfortable on the sea as in the mountains.  Glad to chat... who knows what the future may hold?

Wow gotta say your beautiful and sound pretty amazing. I’m Richard btw always outdoors happy and laughing I work in the construction field in SoCal but I’m dyin to relocate looking into sustainable living and would love to find someone I can build a life with and have kids all while making a positive impact on the world or atleast the area I’m located haha anyway I’d love to get to know you better message me for my info

39 Scotch American Lad down to earth & all that.

A little dream never hurt. Would you like to engage me in good conversation?

I love what you wrote you sound amazing and have a pretty comfortable life my name is Jon I'm 34 single never married no kids I would love to get to know you and see where it goes

You sound amazing? Are you in Scotland? I'm from Inverness but living in Portugal now. Could you be interested in joining me?

The calmest man on earth.