Inge Leonora-den Ouden

After reading some post here I understand the thread is about having tinnitus. But in some of the post I read about frustration too, frustration about the way other people (without a hearing problem) can react.

Myself I don't have a hearing problem, in fact my hearing is very good. But I'm always afraid I will get a hearing problem, because my ears are very sensitive (to low, high and loud sounds, and to cold). As a child I had an ear infection with high fever, and it damaged my right ear. It didn't affect my hearing, only sometimes for some minutes the ear gets 'deaf', or I can hear hissing sounds in that ear.

I feel compassion for people with hearing problems. I knew someone who was totally deaf and I still know some people who can only hear with a hearing aid, or a device called CI. I know these people can't understand/hear me if I just say something. I have to get their attention first. And then, when they look at me, I talk in their direction and do my best to articulate as good as I can. That was what the lady who was totally deaf told me to do.

Please, don't be ashamed of your hearing problem. If someone wants to have a conversation with you, explain it to them. If they don't want to take it into account ... that isn't your problem, but theirs!

A hedge forum? Interesting.
I do have hedges at all-sides-but-one of my gardens (front and back). These hedges were already there long before we moved in (and that was over 20 years ago). Maybe the liguster (privet) hedge around the front garden has been planted when these houses were newly built, around 1960? It's a good dense hedge, as long as I trim it several times every year.
It's a pity it isn't 'edible'. The nice smelling white flowers and black berries won't appear with all this trimming. But now it's a good wind-break, and a hiding place for birds, insects, etc.

At the back there are hedges of some different species of conifers. These are so high, nobody can look over them ... But the neighbours living in the apartments above (mine is the ground-floor apartment), they can look in my garden. These hedges need trimming only once a year. But because they are so large, it's still a lot of work. At one side there isn't a hedge anymore, because that neighbour replaced it with a wooden fence (the kind you can't see through).
Conifer hedges may not seem fitting in permaculture, but they have the same advantages as the other hedges: birds and other creatures can hide in it. And one of the permaculture principles is: 'use what's there'... these hedges were there. :-)

I see Harry now has his own thread as a boot. So this one will be Alex(andra)'s?

Welcome back Stephen!

I am glad to see you are three boots now!

Welcome Harry! For me, as a 'follower' of boots through their posts it is easy you are using this thread for your BEL posts. It's good to see Esteban isn't the only boot anymore, now you are there and Stephen is back.

Ac Baker wrote:

Inge Leonora-den Ouden wrote:
It's not that bad. That's why I call it 'a cold' and not 'the flu'.
I was able to get out of bed this morning. But I don't feel like doing all things I planned to do today.

I hope you're feeling better, and have been able to rest safely at home meanwhile.

One of the frustrating things about "cold-like symptoms" is that there's no way of knowing without testing, which virus is causing them, and thus the potential for complications .. both in ourselves, and others.

I've learned the hard way, I have to really rest for at least one more day than I think I need, to reliably avoid post-viral fatigue etc.

Not always straightforward to do, especially in Spring, though ..

Hoping everyone is getting some good rest.

Thank you. I am feeling much better now.
After the Tuesday when I felt really bad, I stayed at home and did as little as possible until the weekend. Saturday I went to see my friends at the community garden, but warned them not to come too close. Most of them told they had the same symptoms. We all didn't do any work there, and left after about an hour.
Now it's the next Tuesday. I felt reasonably well and did my ordinary things. But now (after doing a few odd jobs in my garden) I feel more 'tired' than usual. So I went inside to rest (and read my e-mail and write answers, like here).

Hester Winterbourne wrote:What I've noticed is how quick some people are to offer you something when you tell them you don't have one.  Smartphone, microwave... .

Yes, that's why there's a hair-dryer in my closet (someone gave me) and for some time I had a laundry dryer (someone gave me, but luckily I could give it to someone else). I was lucky to give the TV away too, after my husband died (he always watched sports).
I am not without any modern conveniences. I do have central heating in this rented apartment. I have a washing machine.
I have a smart phone, but don't like to use it (or any phone). I have a laptop computer, very happy to be able to use it to communicate by e-mail, this forum, some facebook groups, a.a.

The most important to have in a really rich life: friends!

Hi Esteban. Are you the only boot at the moment? Or are there others who don't post on Permies?