Vera I can most certainly find you any sort of blouse you are looking for. I understand the frustration of not being able to find that particular "piece". Even in what I did for a living, I had a small little list of things I just really wanted, and sometimes they were incredibly basic (like a nude camisole with a certain type of lace) and it taking 8 years to finally stumble upon the piece at an antique auction. Had I not been there for business, I never would have found it.
You can "puurple Moosage" me this info, but I'm more than happy to help you, and chances are, since prior to finally moving to my homestead, I spent 6-9 months shopping and augmenting my archive (some of that stuff though is for study, for museums and films etc) but because I knew I would be on my land in a rural area, (and most likely wanting to stay around, due to just getting there) I shopped a lot. I probably have 40 really nice white blouses that I can just think of off the top of my head, and that doesn't include what is stored away.
Main questions would be measurements if you can get a tape measure bust, shoulder, natural waist, around your arm.
a photograph (if you can find one, just googling or whatever) of the "type of "style" you are attracted to (generally, I have had clients draw over a blouse they clipped from a
magazine, changing the neckline to show me what is more their "ideal")
Fabric preference. I know you said not see through, but there is a wonderful world of fabric choices out there. silk,
linen, high quality cotton, silk cotton blend, even brushed canvas, rayon, etc
And then I would always say this to people, (and sometimes people would look at me weird) "other notes" meaning like, I joke around with my mom that the women in our family seem to somehow, after about 35 get "weird arm fat" It is definitely our "built" Scandinavian lady stock, but for myself, even though I wouldn't say it is "weird" or anyone else would say "Hey your arm is fat!" I tend to not wear short sleeve blouses that are tighter or cut a certain way. It is just some dumb neurotic thing, but we all have our own little quirks. By telling me any of these little quirks. (they also can be like. "I don't like it when blouses cut in the waist, I tend to like a straight more box/boyish/relaxed line on the shirt, or "I don't like blouses that go past my waist line. I like to wear a blouse that I don't feel the need to tuck into pants" Just help me get you what you need.
I guess because it is email and all on hard drives, but I have THOUSANDS of these type of requests and "notes"- everything from work boots for a guy who did reclaimed flooring in Brooklyn, to women wanting that "flapper" look for their weddings, To a lady who has large calves-but wanted to wear a tall equestrian boot and felt like she was doomed (unless she had them custom made) to guys looking for the perfect 3 piece suit for their new job. I have done it all, and I'm happy to say, even if it took me 6 months. Everyone got what they wanted. I just got a message a week ago, randomly on
Facebook from a painter, who was still raving about the suit he bought from me, 7 years ago for his first "big" gallery show. Honestly I find it fun. Not every shop owner would say that, or even Etsy/Instagram seller would say that, but I actually mean it.
Your price point is well within the guidelines of something beautiful that I could find you, and ship it to you, wherever you are. - In fact it is a great price point that includes international shipping.
So drop that info my way, and I will also take some photos for you. I also specialized in clothing from kids to all sizes of adult (petite, reg, plus, tall, etc) and prided myself on being able to find cool vintage/antique things for all shapes and sizes. Some are more challenging than others, but I found the folks who only sold things size 0-8 or mens to a 44- just being lazy. People were a tad smaller in general (due to vitamins, and yes I think we have gotten larger due to hormones in our food) but it is not the travesty that some vintage sellers claim. There have always been people of all shapes and sizes (shoes included) it just requires more effort on the part of the curator to find those goods. I also am a big fan of customizing a garment, and I did it for customers at no cost in my shop. I just moved to NM, and don't have any relationships like this, but if it came to light that I felt a few small "tweaks" on your white blouse were necessary, I could drop it off in Santa Fe, and find someone to do it. That way it arrives and you feel great. I know perhaps some of what I say seems too good to be true, but I guess, arriving with nothing in nyc (but an interest in antiques and vintage I inherited from my parents) after Hurricane Katrina took all my worldly belongings away at 23, and truly being worried I'd starve to death. I focused on this interest/hobby with a keen determination. In less than two years, just being nice, and finding people things they wanted, selling them fairly and at a good price, and not making people feel weird to bring them back if they didn't fit of feel right- was a business in the black to the tune of $300k- from nothing. I had posted on other forums when clothing comes up, and one of the reasons why I wanted to walk away and lead a "simpler life" is that despite my love of old things, when I went into consulting- I could not get the brands (many you most likely wear or like) to at least, with the things they were making new- to make them good. this means higher grades of leather in the shoes, a little more seam allowance at the cuffs, better buttons, higher quality wools for the coats- It is sad that most major corporations and fashion manufacturing companies, (well like every thing else I guess) depend on
Planned obsolescence, not even depend, It is integral to their capital model. hence the landfills filled with Gap and H&M or Forever 21. In 2010 I kind of washed my hands of it, feeling guilty, and feeling bad when I would see that great blouse I provided to a design company... in really crappy polyester with cheap buttons sold for 39.99. It seemed disrespectful in a way to the original which was sewn by someone's grandma, who added some Battenberg lace that her aunt gave her in 1936.
However, (rant finished. ha ha) If I can somehow use all the years of pouring over text/archival documents pertaining to historical dress, militariana, workwear, leather goods, etc to a) support myself and be able to pay for the improvements in my new permie paradise, and B) thrill someone with a great item, that works, and feels good. then bring it on!
Drop me that "Message"- I guess I will figure out how to find it. (I haven't gotten a "purple moosage" yet. ha ha
Vera Stewart wrote:I personally have been on a search for the last six months or so for a long sleeved white/ivory/cream coloured ladies blouse that is
a) not in any way see-through
b) "fancy" enough to wear for a night out at a restaurant
c) functional enough to wear about the house
d) flattering, but not overly revealing
e) my size, which is large.
f) long enough that I can raise my arms without showing off my belly fat
g) less then $100 delivered.
I haven't looked EVERYWHERE, but I haven't found it yet, either. So I would be very interested if you could find something like that!
In terms of problems ordering/being comfortable getting things online - I now live in a small town, and have to accept that if I want something specific, it needs to come from the internet. As long as there is a return policy that works, then I feel comfortable, although I also have to include in my target pricing that shipping is always higher for me when ordering from the USA, because, I am not in the USA! It puts some things out of reach that otherwise I would buy. Oh well.