Observing hummingbirds, and perusing the lists of plants above, reinforces an observation I've had for a long time....hummers prefer flowers with a long tube or throat. The tongue of the hummers, and to some extent, of butterflies also, can reach the nectar down at the end of such flowers. This is usually out of the reach of
bees, although they might still work the flowers for pollen, which is often placed near the opening, or be so desperate as to chew through the flowers.
The only plants I would immediately add to the list that arent' there yet are buddleia (for butterflies) and any kind of salvia (for hummers).