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Looking for a wilderness woman

 
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I’m living my version of “the dream” , tucked deep within the confines of the Arkansas Ozarks . It’s always awesome
I’d like to share my life with someone , a very certain person , whom I’ve never met .


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Hello,

I just wanted to say that you’ve found a beautiful place to live Hope you ‘ll find someone great to join you !

In case, you would be open to someone who is for now really far away, you can contact me.



 
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Mareva Louis wrote:Hello,

I just wanted to say that you’ve found a beautiful place to live Hope you ‘ll find someone great to join you !

In case, you would be open to someone who is for now really far away, you can contact me.





Than, you , Mareva..I feel very blessed , indeed ..
Thank you for your attention , but I’ll be honest, I’ve given up the type of life ,that facilitates that type of possibility.
Long distance generally requires a lot of money and travel concessions ..I’m not getting vaxxed , nor am I ever letting anyone stick anything up my nose .so that seems beyond a realistic hope

The current trend is , .I’m not even digging coming out of the forest that much 😂
 
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They say you can’t define freedom , but , by the absence of something you’ve known ..

I never intended to make a 17ft X 24ft canvas tent my permanent home, but it has become my preference , now .
I set it up ten years ago, with the intent , of building a cabin and moving out .
I’m still here ..I’ve almost finished the first guest cabin , with the materials for a second one , but me ...
I’ll likely stay in canvas forever ..



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Ben Child wrote:

Mareva Louis wrote:Hello,

I just wanted to say that you’ve found a beautiful place to live Hope you ‘ll find someone great to join you !

In case, you would be open to someone who is for now really far away, you can contact me.





Than, you , Mareva..I feel very blessed , indeed ..
Thank you for your attention , but I’ll be honest, I’ve given up the type of life ,that facilitates that type of possibility.
Long distance generally requires a lot of money and travel concessions ..I’m not getting vaxxed , nor am I ever letting anyone stick anything up my nose .so that seems beyond a realistic hope

The current trend is , .I’m not even digging coming out of the forest that much 😂



Thank you so much for your reply . I totally understand your position, and you are right long distance means lot of money involved, and now with Covid everything is more complicated... until few weeks ago I didn’t want to get vaccinated or anything, but  for some reasons I had to do it .
Also,  I’m not yet ready to give up the way I would like to live, may be I’ll find with time that it is possible here too... in a different way.

Best wishes to you
 
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Hi Ben,

I would love to have a private conversation. awrenznest@yahoo.com.

Very interested in learning more about you.
Nicole
 
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Nicole Last wrote:Hi Ben,

I would love to have a private conversation. awrenznest@yahoo.com.

Very interested in learning more about you.
Nicole



Nicole
Can you tell me a little about yourself ?
 
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Actually , I’ll just give my email address, here

..that’s probably a better way , anyway

Benjaminchild67@gmail.com
 
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Wishing I was younger, that is an amazing life. My dream.

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F 34 here. Are you enjoying Arkansas? I'm from upstate NY and love the forested mountains here but with everyone moving out of the cities I'm interested in hearing about other locations. Your place is gorgeous, keep up the amazing work. I understand the tent living, I decided to stay in a tipi for the next couple years.
 
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I think I made a mistake suggesting writing me on my email ...I get so much crap on that thing , I miss a lot of stuff ..
I started an Instagram page for my retreat. I’m a wilderness lifestyle coach , of a sorts , and I’m building it , for exposure .
I think it gives a better idea of my thang.

Oh, I’m a Cristian ..I don’t  spend much time in buildings , the forest being my church. but it’s important to me .. it’s the narrative , in which I view today’s reality . If you don’t share that perspective , I’m afraid you find me difficult to bare..I’m very much a Sag. , I can’t be anything but

I’m also a political atheist, I don’t believe in any of that bullshit theatre ..if you have strong convictions towards either “side” , I’ll not convert  



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Hey , it’s the great reset , what better time to make your own rules

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Ashley Nichole wrote:F 34 here. Are you enjoying Arkansas? I'm from upstate NY and love the forested mountains here but with everyone moving out of the cities I'm interested in hearing about other locations. Your place is gorgeous, keep up the amazing work. I understand the tent living, I decided to stay in a tipi for the next couple years.



I love where I am .. I’ve been all around the world and can’t think of a place I’d rather be .
Sounds sweet with the tipi , I’m intrigued
 
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Well, looks Like I’ve met a kindred spirit , someone with a remarkably similar perspective and goals. Time will tell , but I believe it’s an answer to prayer and It’s pretty cool that it came about on this forum .
thanks to the mods and the people that take the time to make this place happen

Thanks
Ben

Oh, I’m not  corresponding for purposes of a relationship , anymore
 
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Are you vegan?  So you are doing retreats on your land?
 
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No, I’m not vegan ..A little meat, mostly raw foods .

It’s a kind of retreat ..I live in the wilderness and sometimes people come and stay awhile , help around, and learn how to live a more minimalist life ..the good life
 
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Well, Damn ...
I’ve found myself in the midst of a triangle , the likes of which , I’ve extricated myself ..

Update ...if your still in the midst of any form of relationship , I’m not your dude ..
 
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Hello!
 
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Rachael Ramos wrote:Hello!



Hi Rachael
 
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I’ve been traversing this path , attempting to find someone of like mind for awhile and I’ve come to the conclusion that nothing , short of face to face time , is beneficial , for this pursuit ...at least anything worth getting excited about ..

I’m open to possibilities

 
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Ben Child wrote:I’ve been traversing this path , attempting to find someone of like mind for awhile and I’ve come to the conclusion that nothing , short of face to face time , is beneficial , for this pursuit ...at least anything worth getting excited about ..

I’m open to possibilities



I wonder about this too. I think you look like just about what I'm looking for, but I'm far away. Relocating to the Missouri Ozarks this year, but who knows. I keep thinking that online isn't really a way to meet someone, but that's my pagan self thinking the universe will bring the right person along when the time is right so it doesn't matter what I do.

I'm not really completely wilderness though. I can be - built my own house, was primitive off grid for several years - but my preference is to have some "modern luxuries" while still retaining the capacity and skills to be fully sustainable if needed.
 
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Very beautiful
 
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I changed the Instagram account to: The land of imagination
 
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Hi my name is Angela I'm reading your post I think you're really cute and I love the off-grid thing because I do it myself in Arizona you look like you have a really interesting and beautiful place I'm native American with my hair down past my butt would love to chat with you if you wouldn't mind
dirtyfeather@gmail.com that is the name of my ranch
 
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I know I keep updating this , but I need to make somethings clear .
I’m a Jesus freak , don’t let the lifestyle fool you ...no I don’t go to church buildings
I’m not gonna adapt to new age philosophy
And I’m not gonna jump into any relationship ..I’m gonna be slow and organic
 
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Ben Child wrote:I  like your energy , if I was a bit younger ......



Ben,

Thank you for the positivity. I have been following your search for a partner on the forum with intrigue, and am praying you find your wilderness woman. You have built a beautiful retreat and seem to be well grounded. I love that you aren't ashamed to tell others that your a Jesus freak. I think he's a pretty rad dude myself. Good luck on your search, if only I were a bit older... 😁

-Alice
 
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Ben Child wrote:I  like your energy , if I was a bit younger ......



Ben,

Thank you for the positivity. I have been following your search for a partner on the forum with intrigue, and am praying you find your wilderness woman. You have built a beautiful retreat and seem to be well grounded. I love that you aren't ashamed to tell others that your a Jesus freak. I think he's a pretty rad dude myself. Good luck on your search, if only I were a bit older... 😁

-Alice



I really appreciate that ...so gracious , you are ..and thanks for the prayers , I’m definitely in desire of those ..
I’ll do the same and keep your path  in prayer, too
Thanks again
Ben
 
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Can we be friends? I'm living in the Arkansas Ozarks as well and absolutely love it here. I love Jesus too but I'm not into the church scene although I've checked one out recently as a pulse test. I've found that in the world of quirky homesteady, earthy people, it's kind of hard to find someone who's not into new age so I'm intrigued by your comment about that. Aside from gardening and raising chickens, I like to hike, forage, float the river, make art and write music. Nature is where I feel most connected to God and to myself so I just try to spend as much time in it as possible. Really, I stumbled across the singles section of permies out of curiosity. I do, as I think we all do, hope to find someone to love and do life with but for now I'm just looking for a friend to nerd out about nature, God and permaculture with. Be well!
 
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Chanel Faye wrote:Can we be friends? I'm living in the Arkansas Ozarks as well and absolutely love it here. I love Jesus too but I'm not into the church scene although I've checked one out recently as a pulse test. I've found that in the world of quirky homesteady, earthy people, it's kind of hard to find someone who's not into new age so I'm intrigued by your comment about that. Aside from gardening and raising chickens, I like to hike, forage, float the river, make art and write music. Nature is where I feel most connected to God and to myself so I just try to spend as much time in it as possible. Really, I stumbled across the singles section of permies out of curiosity. I do, as I think we all do, hope to find someone to love and do life with but for now I'm just looking for a friend to nerd out about nature, God and permaculture with. Be well!



Sounds like a lot of shared interests ..be hard to turn down another friend , of the same ilk ..you bet .
I don’t really want to give my phone number here and I stay locked out of my email account about half the time, but you can either get ahold of me on that Instagram page or purple cow message me a way to get ahold of ya ..

 
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I happened upon this thread and couldn’t stop reading! What a great life you have built for yourself, Ben. You have a beautiful place. Yay for Jesus freaks living off the land and loving God’s creation. I am one too. I believe God will bring you your hearts desire.  Keep praying for her! Ask God to keep making you into the man he created you to be… he is preparing you for her and preparing her for you. All the best to you. Thanks for the pleasure of reading your story here. Rooting for you!
 
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Susan Brill wrote:I happened upon this thread and couldn’t stop reading! What a great life you have built for yourself, Ben. You have a beautiful place. Yay for Jesus freaks living off the land and loving God’s creation. I am one too. I believe God will bring you your hearts desire.  Keep praying for her! Ask God to keep making you into the man he created you to be… he is preparing you for her and preparing her for you. All the best to you. Thanks for the pleasure of reading your story here. Rooting for you!


Thanks Susan , I really appreciate that
 
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I’ve had a string of technical problems, as of late , one being , the Instagram account , that I do my retreat on, got hacked. . Apparently ,I’m not smart enough to get it back and the current occupier is scamming with some bitcoin crap . it’s a bit ironic..

As a side not , if ya wanna see what I got going you can still check it out in TikTok . The_land_of_imagination ..
 
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I don't want to "date" anyone ...I want to follow a mysterious white fawn into the forest and spend a single night with the freckled queen of the woodland Realm, only to stagger home at sunrise and find that three hundred years have passed
 
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Ben Child wrote:I think I made a mistake suggesting writing me on my email ...I get so much crap on that thing , I miss a lot of stuff ..
I started an Instagram page for my retreat. I’m a wilderness lifestyle coach , of a sorts , and I’m building it , for exposure .
I think it gives a better idea of my thang.

Oh, I’m a Cristian ..I don’t  spend much time in buildings , the forest being my church. but it’s important to me .. it’s the narrative , in which I view today’s reality . If you don’t share that perspective , I’m afraid you find me difficult to bare..I’m very much a Sag. , I can’t be anything but

I’m also a political atheist, I don’t believe in any of that bullshit theatre ..if you have strong convictions towards either “side” , I’ll not convert  



Instagram ;  The Benevolent Kingdom of Ben

Hey , it’s the great reset , what better time to make your own rules

Would probably be better to communicate with me there




Hey can i follow you? I cant find your Insta for some reason when i search.......
 
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Daphne Szeles wrote:

Ben Child wrote:I think I made a mistake suggesting writing me on my email ...I get so much crap on that thing , I miss a lot of stuff ..
I started an Instagram page for my retreat. I’m a wilderness lifestyle coach , of a sorts , and I’m building it , for exposure .
I think it gives a better idea of my thang.

Oh, I’m a Cristian ..I don’t  spend much time in buildings , the forest being my church. but it’s important to me .. it’s the narrative , in which I view today’s reality . If you don’t share that perspective , I’m afraid you find me difficult to bare..I’m very much a Sag. , I can’t be anything but

I’m also a political atheist, I don’t believe in any of that bullshit theatre ..if you have strong convictions towards either “side” , I’ll not convert  



Instagram ;  The Benevolent Kingdom of Ben

Hey , it’s the great reset , what better time to make your own rules

Would probably be better to communicate with me there




Hey can i follow you? I cant find your Insta for some reason when i search.......



my instagram account got hacked and I cant figure out how to get it back, but I have a tiktok page land_of_imagination, that your welcome to view
 
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