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ISO gay masculine male into outdoors activities for my boyfriend in our polyamorous relationship

 
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I am looking for a gay man for my boyfriend who is bi but mostly gay. Must be masculine and loves the outdoors, especially alaska. Must in no sense be religious, especially Christian. Feel free to ask any questions! I imagine a post like this would bring up a lot of them... if i did it right this is a picture of our front yard. Yes we live in paradise. Come visit!
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Why are you looking for a gay man? Why is it necessary that your boyfriend be mostly gay?
 
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Haha, I'm not looking for a gay boyfriend for me... I'm looking for a gay boyfriend for my boyfriend who is mostly gay. We are polyamorous and I am not male. ;)
 
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Thank you, Debbie!

I apologize for being rude with my extremely forward questions. I am queer, and I was trying to be little protective of the community here because of my own personal experiences on the dating scene.

I hope you two find a nice boyfriend for you boyfriend! I am currently a bit too busy with other stuff to seriously consider dating right now.
 
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Oh, I hope I wasn't offensive with anything I said. I am not familiar with what is acceptable terminology these days. Thanks for reaching out!
 
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You were fine!  I hope both of you two’s search goes well! May you two have a happy holidays!
 
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Debbie Turner wrote:Oh, I hope I wasn't offensive with anything I said. I am not familiar with what is acceptable terminology these days. Thanks for reaching out!



I'm not sure if it's possible for someone who's obviously accepting of bi or gay males as you are to be objectively offensive.  Best of luck in your search.  You guys sure have a beautiful spot!
 
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Thank you!
 
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Good to see other poly folks around! Good luck with your search, may your 2020 be full of goodness and compersion!
 
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Thank you! It's always encouraging to know there are more of us out there! Good luck and happy New Year to you! Feel free to message if you'd like a new friend! :}
 
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Hello,

Can you expand a little more about what are you looking for?  Is it a male playmate for your boyfriend that does not play with yourself being female?

Please email me at jamestudor4@gmail.com.

I am intrigued. I want to live off the grid, and Alaska has been a dream of mine.

BTW I am cute haha
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